Generally speaking, and before we talk about you, just let me say that I am here to help.  It can be intimidating to think about meeting a psychiatrist for the first time, and I understand that.  In fact, I know that some people might find me intimidating, particularly after reading my bio, but I really want to be seen as that kind and gracious doctor who wants to help you. My style as a psychiatrist is to inform you and to discuss options while respecting your right to make the decisions that are best for you.  I don’t do anything in the way of treatment without your full agreement, and I don’t tell you what to do.  Sometimes I will tell a patient that “you are the captain of your ship and I am just the ship’s doctor”. Now I would invite you to read on, looking for how might be able to work together.